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Wednesday, July 31, 2013

1 Tip on Emotional Control vs Command



Control is a big issue with many. We are all told at one point or another "just get control of yourself (or the situation)" Well it is not as easy as many people make that sound. In fact it is impossible to control anything. Think about it, if you have control then stop your breathing until you finish reading this blog. Well it is a short blog so maybe you can so change that to stop breathing for a hour an hour. Not possible. 

So controlling yourself, situations or another person is an illusion. An impossible expectation that leads to complete and sometimes devastating disappointment. Control is actually being unbalanced in yourself and your life because it is not attainable.

1 Tip to Change

The amazing one tip to get you to a point of command is to change your expectation from seeking control to earning command. 

It is possible to command yourself. it is possible to command a situation and it is possible to command another person. Command is leading with confidence. Command is earning respect from yourself, a situation and from other people. Working hard and earning respect is how you get command over your life. Start shifting to this new mindset today and have a new perspective in life. 


To learn more go to another blog on the subject I posted  titled Control and Command: Shift to a New Mindset on my 2nd blog Making a Change with Dr. Bill Blog 

  - http://positivechangewithdrbill.blogspot.com/2013/07/control-and-command-shift-to-new-mindset.html

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